(socially appropriate, non-crass redtube how to ask chicks to fall asleep to you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” had been initially our ‘idea’, the good news is it is mainstream!
While you both read Good Looking Loser if you are home on this Saturday night, it better be with your fuckbuddy half-naked next to you. I spent so many Saturday nights in the home in my own 20’s. We be sorry too.
In the event that you can make eye contact (+ smile) with girls or go watch other guys interact with random girls check out our program if you can’t talk to girls at night, just go out and see. Even although you do not state a word the complete time – it is better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful creepy web log.
Used to do a video (see below) and was not planning to execute a post with this ‘common feeling’ topic but I made the decision it had been a good indisputable fact that everyone else see this.
Dudes that “research” sex/dating in the Web frequently experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up in their interactions or have no idea how to locate out in which the girls appears.
They likewise have drawn in a lot of “game” disinformation that Good searching Loser is personally responsible for reversing.
I’m certain you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Intercourse” or “Will You have intercourse beside me?” viral YouTube videos where a man asks 100 girls should they will sleep with him. Frequently he asks issue as the very thing that is first claims.
For instance –
(don’t bother viewing these in complete)
In some instances girls begin to see the camera, in some instances not. It doesn’t really matter.
The outcomes are exactly the same in every the videos –
>98% of this girls state “No.”
Here are the two methods –
Dining Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – just what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will CONSTANTLY get you further, faster)
4:15 “could you want to hook up for a glass or two ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(do not suggest it’s a romantic date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical concerns – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cold approach
7:25 “Do you realy want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should drop by therefore we’ll watch a film .”
8:20 “Normal” guys that Get Laid a great deal use both of these ALL THE TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking questions” is wrong.
11:20 A note on how”game that is much actually matters.
12:00 which will be better? Verbal or stuff that is physical?
12:45 ways to get faster because of the stuff that is physical />15:00 utilize both: ask girl to generally meet for a glass or two, then her to come over for a movie/drink.
# 1 Offer to Meet Up for a glass or two
(“You need to grab a drink tonight? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that get a large amount of pussy, could be the solitary most utilized line when you look at the reputation for the universe.
Every woman when you look at the universe (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend product) knows that is an invite for future sex.
This is the universal, courteous, socially appropriate invite for sex.
If you should be wanting to get Laid, it is a definitely better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she starts taking a look at you as a potential boyfriend and withholds her pussy unless you are emotionally invested so that you do not think she actually is a slut.
Perhaps the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s most likely just hoping to get me personally drunk”, will ironically totally allow you to achieve this – if they’re intimately available and DTF.
Plenty of guys are frightened to utilize this idea as it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
That is absurd, the need to be creative/witty is merely insecurity and social inexperience.
(i have been here, trust me)
Other people are frightened that girls will think “this person would like to rape me”.
Emotionally healthier girls WILL NOT THAT that is THINK.
Just trust me on this 1 too.
A DTF woman will not ignore a courteous invite getting a beverage with you – if she likes you.
I completely encourage one to make use of this proposition EACH AND EVERY TIME before you are taking a woman’s quantity.
#2 Offer to view a Movie/Hangout (at your house)
(“the trend is to drop by tonight so we’ll grab/watch a film and spend time?”)
If “grabbing a drink” may be the # 1 idea of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It might be # 1 actually, this is exactly what every person whom Gets Laid in college uses if they aren’t at parties.
(but it is usually the ‘after party’ pretense)
Like the prior proposition, girls understand “watch a movie” to be an invite for sex (or at the very least some form of messing around).
Like “getting a drink”, the “watch a movie/hangout” proposition is socially appropriate, courteous rather than too forward.
Perhaps it is obvious you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (spend time) and never “see a film” or “go to a movie” (date).
Make that clear.
(it frequently is when you say “hangout”)
The invite is just a socially appropriate excuse for the lady to come over and fuss – whenever you want.
If you are “getting a glass or two” with a lady (or end up on a far more traditional date) you should use this pretense to obtain the girl to come over later.
All girls understand what it means.
Girls understand this and certainly will come over looking means hotter than when they had been simply likely to watch a film.
A “movie/hangout” could be the universal way that is socially acceptable getting a lady to come over, but these options are appropriate too –
Come over and now we’ll chill.
Come over and now we’ll earn some food and also have some drinks.
Come over and we also’ll just chill within the tub that is hot.
Come over and then we’ll smoke weed.
Come over so we’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are not necessarily necessary she is your fuckbuddy (just tell/ask her to come over) – but can be useful after you have fucked the girl and.
You do not need every other pretenses than those 2.
How/Why Performs This “Work”!?
Since the woman likes both you and would like to have intercourse to you.
She is often just waiting around for the opportunity to do this.
Preferably, your ex should KNOW ALREADY what you’re looking (intercourse, not a girlfriend) for whenever you meet her, however these propositions will leave without doubt.
This is why that I don’t rely on garbage like “text game” or “working on” girls when you meet them. Even in the small instances where it may look to get results, it is hardly efficient and it’s likely that – the lady ALREADY liked you.
The next time you wish to communicate (verbally) that you would like to sleep along with her and want to know where she appears – just suggest a “drink” or “movie/hangout”.
You’ll receive your answer.
If you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls although I encourage, physical screening (a little goes a long way, especially during the day), this type of “verbal screening” is a nice way to get to the point.
(still – make an effort to get comfortable with it, verbal testing won’t ever be as effective as real screening + little talk)
Once per week, some body asks ways to get a lady to come over or wonders the way in which to step a”hang up out” instead of a romantic date.
Then that’s good news if this was common sense to you (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times.
It’s likely that – you’ve got already been Laid that is getting and this tangled up some loose ends.
You now have the CORRECT answer to if it wasn’t common sense –
Just What do I do to meet (rather than date) a lady?
This is certainly as simple as it gets and when a woman likes you – she’s going to leap during the opportunity to obtain a drink/movie and chill with you.