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Another Baby?

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  • Is it the right time for baby no. 2?
  • Your partner's opinion - that's important
  • Is your relationship on solid ground?
  • Follow your instinct
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You think you'd like to have another baby, but aren't sure if this is the right time? While some swear by a three-year age gap, there are others who insist on having the babies "one after the other". While there's no "perfect time" to have another baby, some times are definitely better than others.

Here are some factors to consider when you're trying to decide whether you're ready to have another baby:

Another Baby?Is your youngest child old enough?
If you have just had a baby and you're still getting up two or three times a night, you might find it hard to find the energy to cope with the physical demands of pregnancy.

How much attention do your other children require?
If your first-born is in kindergarten, it may be alright to have a baby now. But if you're busy caring for triplets or a child with complex medical needs - this may not be the right time.

How does your partner feel about having another baby?
While most women do manage quite well on their own, pregnancy is when a partner's presence and support is needed. So if your partner feels quite strongly that he's not ready for another baby, don't force him.

Is your relationship on fairly solid ground right now?
There's a myth that having a baby can help bring a couple together - when actually the opposite is true. If you're already having difficulty in your relationship, having a colicky newborn on hand isn't going to help matters at all. Whatever the grannies may say, its better to wait for just a little while longer till your relationship stabilizes.

Will having another baby affect your family's financial situation?
There's no denying it: kids cost money. If having another baby is going to stretch your budget to the breaking point, you might want to postpone your pregnancy until your financial situation is looking a little healthier.

How do you feel about having another baby? Does the thought of having another baby fill you with euphoria or fear?
Most often, your gut instinct will tell you a lot about your readiness for another baby. If you take the time to weigh these factors, you should have a pretty good idea about whether or not you're ready for another baby.

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